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And what have you done when a man you’ve gone out with for more than a month is stingy in this area?
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His actions — minimal as they were — should speak for themselves. Or he never learned to express himself to a woman in a way that would make her feel good.
Upon sitting down for dinner with another man for a first encounter, he looked at me, paused, and said, “You’re .” I smiled and said, “Thank you.” That was the last time I heard it for several months. That feels good to hear.” He said, “I don’t tell beautiful women they are beautiful.” When I asked, “Why not?
Some are very sincere when they say that I am more beautiful than my picture, but, I think most use the words as a line. If a man really wants to compliment me and show that he finds me interesting and attractive than give me some actions.
And women think that someone wants something from them if you compliment their looks.
Some men tell you they think you are attractive on the first or other early dates. For two months I dated a man who never said he thought I was attractive.
In frustration at his aloofness, one day I said to him, “I don’t even know if you find me attractive.” He said, “I’m pursuing you, aren’t I?
” Since I didn’t consider this wealthy man’s once-a-week phone calls and occasional casual, home cooked meals much of a pursuit, I retorted, “Are you?
” In other words, he didn’t feel he needed to tell me he was attracted to me or thought I was pretty or sexy.